New Home

OK my last post was a deep one. This is of a lighter nature. As of August 1, 2009 (July really) I became a home owner. Yes, I bought my first home, it's a co-op but its mine, well the banks for right now. It is something that I thought would never be. And it is something I have wanted for a long time. It was very exciting moving in and getting all new furniture and having that brought in. Hanging up my first two pictures (OK so far the only pictures). Having all the help that I got to paint. I still need to paint the hallway and bathroom. I couldn't wait any longer. My friends wanted to know when I would be having a house warming. So I did. And it was a great time. I enjoyed having my family, friends, and even new friends that I have made since I moved in, join in the celebration. I missed those of you that couldn't make it but I do understand...That little thing called life gets in the way...but I have to say you were missed for sure.

I have to admit for the last year and a half I have had a lot going on. I have lost some friends and family members (R.I.P.). I have had changes in my life, some not so happy. I have to admit, the day I step foot in my new home everything else didn't matter. I have always felt that life is what you make it. I have always tried to keep the negative out. All I can say now is, life is good...and it keeps getting better!!!

I hope that all of you are as lucky as me.

Long Time

It has been some time since I have posted anything. I just had some random thoughts going through my head. We can have people in our lives that we enjoy so much. And then something changes. And all that fun is gone. I know people that keep asking why do things happen to them. Well, let me help you out with that...Think about what you do to others. You might say to yourself (and others) I am such a good person. And you just might be, when things are going your way. Ask yourself these questions.
Have I been good to everyone?
Have I been playing games with other peoples lives?
Have I done anything to make people look at me different?
Have I done something and blamed others for it?
Have I put someone in the middle of something that I should have?
Have I crossed any lines, and then played the victim?
Have people come in and out of my life, and if so often?

If you answered honestly to these questions...And answered yes to any of them. Then you need to stand up and take blame for you what have done. Don't point the finger at others. And don't blame others. It is YOUR life, and only you can control it. Only you can stop the games you are playing.

Anyway, those are just my thoughts.